Mar 26, 2021 · Loser’s mindset and all of that. I’ve long-since moved past it and forgiven him, but man… as a teenager and in most of my 20’s it absolutely ate away at my soul. Feeling like your father …

Jan 18, 2026 · Andy’s Note: Hey guys, this is a guest post from my friend Alex, from Playing with Fire – he wrote a guest post for me, and I wrote one for his site.

Bending the rules of a late night card game Where the loser removes an item of clothing You're dreading each deal, so urgent and grave Have a shufty over your shoulder Well, it's a shady game And I want …

Oct 14, 2025 · Winner or loser. The guy who gets laid or the guy who never will. It’s incredibly binary. That binary thinking traps you. It tells you, “If I’m not already winning, I must be a loser.” And if you …

May 22, 2025 · Yep, I’ve gotten back into approaching after taking a long break during my relationship. It’s good to be back! Here’s the vid:

Apr 5, 2020 · Andy was a total loser at the start, so if he can get laid a lot, why can’t I? Am I just putting up bullshit excuses like these ones? Why does Andy deserve to overcome his depression, but not …

I really recommend you listen to the audio above first, before you continue reading. To sum up the audio, here’s my “approach anxiety program”:

Fun fact: I used to overthink texts more than you do. I’d stare at my phone for twenty minutes debating whether “hey :)” was too eager or whether “hey.” was too cold. I’d re-read conversations ten times …

10 Ways to Build an ‘I Don’t Give a F*ck’ Attitude: Letting Go of Others’ Opinions April 14, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser)

Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & other …